- firstly, in a large kadai take 2 cups coconut (fresh / desiccated) and 1½ cup milk. 
- mix well making sure the coconut gets wet completely. 
- now add ¾ cup sugar or jaggery. add more sugar for sweetness if required. 
- mix continuously keeping the flame on low. 
- sugar starts to melt and mixture turns watery. 
- keep stirring keeping the flame on low. 
- milk starts to evaporates after 20 minutes and mixture turns crumbly. 
- cool the mixture for 10 minutes or till they lightly cool down 
- now add 2 tbsp chopped cashew and ¼ tsp cardamom powder. mix well. 
- prepare small balls to form ladoo. 
- roll it with desiccated coconut. this is optional, however makes ladoo more attractive. 
- finally, serve coconut ladoo or store in a airtight container for a week.