firstly, in a large kadai heat 2 tbsp ghee and roast 5 cashew, 2 tsp raisins.
roast until they turn golden brown and keep aside.
in the same ghee add ½ cup aval (poha) and roast on low flame.
keep roasting till the aval (poha) turns golden brown.
now add 3 cup milk and mix well.
boil on medium flame for 10 minutes or till aval softens.
now in another pan take ¼ cup jaggery. if you are using sugar then directly add to kheer without melting.
add ¼ cup water and dissolve jaggery.
filter the jaggery water to remove any impurities present.
now keeping the flame on low stir well.
get the aval paysam to a boil on low flame. do not over boil as there are chances for milk to curdle once jaggery is added.
turn off the flame and add ¼ cardamom powder and roasted dry fruit.
finally, serve aval paysam hot or chilled.